far more responsibilities

  

ten of wands + five of cups  

Once again, we've got our querent who has taken on far more responsibilities than they s/he can handle.  I keep getting this message about our querent because they have not found a way out of their quagmire, and now the situation is only getting worse.  Now this person is experiencing loss and regret.  Today's card combination indicates that our querent has begun to feel guilty and shameful.  They've become bogged down with many sad regrets, which they are not processing well.  Somehow, our querent's responses have been making the situation messier and more complicated.  Today's two tarot cards do not provide a solution, but if things do not improve soon, then there will be tangible losses - like loss of moneys and relationships.

This is our third day in a row with a ten card from Minor Arcana and, at this point, a querent's becoming increasingly defensive about their predicament of taking on too many responsibilities.  Their mental state is declining, as they begin to feel and act desperately.  Perhaps they see letting go of the responsibilities as equivalent to killing a precious dream and giving up a future win.  So they've continued to carry the heavy burden, even if they understand that the approach is wrong and that it is a lost cause.  (a sympathetic pause)  It has been a difficult period.  Our querent dedicated themself to a tall task, and they worked hard.  But for the sake of their mental health, and to maintain some important relationships, it is critical our querent give up and let go.  To contradict yesterday's message, desist.

Today's cards are from the Housewives Tarot: A Domestic Divination Kit.