compassion and maturity

  

queen of cups + five of cups  

   marital context:  Today's sad querent is a compassionate and mature lady who has been in a very complex and bitter marriage. This card combo confirms the dissolution and end of that union.  In this situation, there is an overabundance of feelings, and our querent is thinking from her heart.  No matter how deeply rejected our querent feels, she knows there's no getting back with her ex-spouse.  For any Pisceans who are currently in the midst of a separation or divorce, sit with your emotions and properly mourn this breakup, as you're able to grieve without losing emotional stability.  Remain in the flow of your sorrow, and also take full responsibility for your role in this loss.  Be extra kind to yourself, and remain warm with your ex-partner, as you both process everything.  Assets will be divided fairly.

   yesterday's sensitive querent:  With the Queen of Cups reappearing as our first card, then we can connect today with yesterday, and it seems that our querent with the loving nature is following her intuition and deciding to change partners. This compassionate querent disconnected from those argumentative partners, stonewalling them and resolutely moving on.  Those ex-partners did not expect this, and they are suddenly very remorseful.

Today's tarot combination reminds me of The National's "Don't Swallow the Cap":  

I have only two emotions

Careful fear and dead devotion

I can't get the balance right

Throw my marbles in the fight

I see all the ones I wept for

All the things I had it in for

I won't cry...

Today's cards are from Robin Wood Tarot.