blazes and dazzles!

    

six of cups + seven of wands  

Our querent is a man who blazes and dazzles!  He wants to offer greater joy to his sweetheart, whom he has known for awhile and with whom he feels familiar and comfortable (Six of Cups).  But at this point he's only thinking of committing.  He hasn't yet shown or expressed how he feels about this sweetheart, because this man is much more focused on ambitions and work.  The majority of his conviction is directed to the professional realm (Seven of Wands).  So for now, this man's falling back on a playful emotional attachment with the sweetheart, maybe because he feels he'll be more successful in work than he'd be in a serious relationship.

Here is the message I think this tarot combo has for our querent:  Your sweetheart admires you equally as much as you admire them, and you are as important to this special someone as they are to you.  Move past acting shy and playfully uncommitted.  However, your intuition is correct that there'll be less time for ambition and work after the relationship becomes official and serious.  An official, committed relationship will make demands on you and your time.