querent was reckless

    

 fool reversed + four of cups  

A querent was reckless, which caused this person to experience an upheaval of thought.  Now they find themself in a chaotic situation because other people's boundaries were disregarded (Fool Rx).  Due to our querent's poor judgement, they have become apathetic. Perhaps our querent expected a gesture of kindness to be reciprocated, although that did not happen.  Left feeling stupid and disconnected, our querent has become distracted and unable to commit to a significant issue (Fool Rx), which is tragic because the significant issue is newness!  A bright, shiny, exciting, and new learning experience!  It is an experience that our reckless querent would benefit from, becoming less foolish and less indifferent.

This complicated situation began when our querent chose to be intellectual rather than mindful; actively and inaccurately judgemental, instead of calmly present and patient.  To decrease the current chaos, our querent could do two things:  Firstly, understand that their reckless behavior is leading to a disastrous outcome.  Secondly, our querent should become more concerned about their own thoughts rather than with the external situation.  This situation will heal on its own, without our querent making any false and ineffective starts.  For the time being, our querent needs to pause and re-evaluate before making their next decision.