negativity

    

nine of swords + four of cups  

Because of negativity, today's querent feels unhappy in a relationship (Nine of Swords).  Although the relationship is quite stable, our despairing querent has become very apathetic and less invested.  Our querent may be thinking about saying "no!" to the nightmare that feels like their relationship (Nine of Swords + Four of Cups).  Today's card combo could provide a better way forward by suggesting that the querent's problem is in their head. Our querent - and consequently their relationship - may be held back by negative emotions.  It's the negative emotions that must be defeated - not our querent, their partner, or the shared relationship.  If our querent is feeling disconnected, then he or she might try ignoring and disgreeing with their negative thoughts.  Our querent will also benefit from showing and modeling the affection they crave - since love begets love.

Today's cards are Lo Scarabeo.